The Islam that Hurts Us

In light of Muslimness writer Kim Jensen's video explaining why she left Islam, many social, spiritual and personal questions have surfaced for us all. My Editorial is not on behalf of sister Kim therefore do not attribute this content to her; nor is it to create 'fitnah' (trouble) or defend anyone. I ask for you to think about Allah's "Clear Signs to you: In order that you may understand", Quran, (2:242).

It is a known fact that people as a community have failed throughout history because they act quick on their emotional responses. A huge Islamic teaching is to reduce your anger, calm down and rationalise your hurt or hate: "The strong is not the one who overcomes the people by his strength, but the strong is the one who controls himself while in anger." (Bukhari hadith) What representation of Islam are Muslims carrying if they urge to crucify the first object disagreeing with Islam? Is this the first time someone has questioned Muslim lifestyle? Prophet Muhammad (saw) is the Iconic leader in Islam of friendship, understanding and love for all. So I ask you: Where was his love when Muslims posted articles condemning a non-Muslim and emails were sent rebuking my humanity?

I need not remind Muslims of the first converts to Islam, however other Faith groups will appreciate the zeal attached to accepting Islam. Muslims' belief is strongly based on Muhammad as a human being, given a direct message from Allah in the form of Quranic verses, thereby confirming his Prophethood. Muslims study that Muhammad was doubtful, scared and asked his wife Khadija for affirmation and support, which was unconditionally given. Later when Prophet Muhammad (saw) informed his society of Islam they shunned him but he always forgave them and understood that they weren't ready. He was a great psychologist, aware of how his culture and community needed 'handling'. Those who did convert - Ali (ra), Umar (ra), Aisha (ra), became the strongest, most intelligent and generous leaders to this date.

We forget as a Muslim nation that to appreciate Islam's gift, a taste of ignorance is required first. No person born into faith can speak for a person who joins that society. The overwhelming Muslim reaction over cartoons, opposing literature and people who reject Islam is darkly tainted with misunderstanding of human intellect, which Prophet Muhammad (saw) emphasised greatly.

I was hugely disappointed as a Muslim and human (yes, there is a difference: to be Muslim you understand that Islam flows in your human body) when I read Muslim reactions towards 'apostasy' included fear-mongering of Hell, condemnation, accusations and mockery. Heaven and Hell are not only for non-Muslims, therefore there is no guarantee. It was a test on our faith too, but did we hold onto Islam's peace, remember Allah and wish our 'apostate' success? We had an opportunity to unite ourselves but were too caught up in arguments with each other. We need to learn to 'let things go' that do not affect us directly and by that I mean not reacting to every single comment that attacks the faith or lifestyle you chose: “From the excellence of a man’s Islam is to leave that which does not concern him” (Tirmidhi hadith). That faith can defend itself. We also had an opportunity to show off our great Islamic tolerance and perhaps, insha'allah, show non-Muslims what Islam truly stands for in our actions. I put it to you then: Wouldn't it have been wonderful to stand by each doubting human and reunite them with the One True God?

I really do not wish to see replies that 'de-conversion' and spiritual struggles should not be publicised; they do, for they are a reminder to Muslims at how fickle faith can be or how traumatising uncertainty is. As a fellow Muslim to you, I advise you to study the Quran and learn the concept of proving and worshipping One God. Brush up your skills on speaking to women, teenagers, the elderly, non-Muslims and those who are searching for solid facts. Do not shun another because their faith is not as strong as yours, do not neglect the human race for being 'different'. We are all Allah's creation and deserve our right to freewill, proof and human compassion: "If Allah were to increase the provision for the believers, they would indeed transgress beyond all bounds through the earth; but he sends it down in due measure as He pleases. For He is with His Servants Well-acquainted, Watchful," Quran, (42:27).

Finally, when you do decide to practise this great Muslimness life with strong conviction:

Sincerely,

Zaufishan
Peace & respect ★